Monday, March 27, 2017
Saturday, October 22, 2016
Sometimes Life is Hard...
It's been forever since I have blogged; I seem to have forgotten how?!! So many things in blogger have changed since I used to blog, and forget about me doing it on my phone or iPad. I tried multiple times and it wouldn't work!!
Life has been crazy challenging in many different ways. And, I am learning a lot. Life is definitely a school. A place where we learn and grow (if we allow it to let us). And it seems the best, most effective method for learning and growth is through trials. And one of the major ways that my trials have come is through the agency of others. Though I have certainly made a lot of mistakes on my own. It's been excruciatingly painful at times. It's been a challenge to find joy and happiness while in the midst of the difficulties.
And certain trials and difficulties are more private than others. It was not intended for everyone to know everything that we are facing or have faced. But, if we can be vulnerable about our trials with safe people (not people who would gossip, or unfairly judge, we call those unsafe people). Because there are so many "unsafe people" out there, we tend to keep our trials inside and don't expose them to the light, as a protection of sorts. But, if we can get brave enough to start talking about our stories, then we can start to heal. And, in the process we learn that others, and in some instances many others, are going through the same thing! And, boom, instant friendship! It has been such a blessing for me to read or listen to others who have shared their hard times. It has helped me through some very heavy stuff, and it has helped me to not feel so alone in my own challenges.
Some people have a greater capacity to empathize than others. And some people have a great capacity for empathy, but they just don't know what to say or do because they have never experienced this kind of trial, or that kind of trial before. And, some people have very little ability to empathize, and mostly only know how to criticize. And there are other people yet, who can't seem to offer any words, critical or otherwise, because they are in the thick of their own stuff and they are feeling too paralyzed.
I don't know how much blogging I will do here going forward. But, I do know that the blogs I do from this point forward will be real. (Not that I haven't been real in my past blogs, but from this point forward, they will be more real.) I will not be hiding behind my mask or a facade. Life isn't all butterflies and rainbows. And my house isn't always clean. My marriage isn't perfect, and neither are my kids. I am completely imperfect, and so is my life. I am a sinner, I need the Atonement every day of my life! And my age is catching up with me, and I now have wrinkles on my face. Although, there is still joy and laughter, yes! And I hope there is much more of that in my future, and in your future! And I trust that there will be. But, just because life is tough, nobody likes a bunch of negativism either. So, blogging through trials is like walking a tight rope. It's finding that balance of sharing the tough, without oversharing or sharing too much negative, and sharing the good while still be real and honest, and not misrepresenting.
Welcome to my Messy Life!
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Life..
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Principles
-Putting God's will above my own (this one is a daily challenge, but I believe it's a true principle and continue to work and do this.)
-Charity: the pure love of Christ. I think this Christmas Season could be summed up by this one word, actually!! But, we need charity in our hearts all year long!
-When we are in the service of our fellow beings, we are only in the service of our God. This great principle was given to us by King Benjamin, but we see this great example set for us repeatedly by our Savior, Jesus Christ in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. He showed He loved His (our) Father by loving and serving others.
-Faith precedes the Miracle. By small and simple things, great things are brought to pass. I just experienced a great miracle in my own life. A miracle healing of my leg and back. The two bulging discs in my back have debilitated me to pretty much bed rest the past 5 months. I prayed in faith, fervently. I received Priesthood blessings. My back was healed without surgery. Though, sometimes this is not always the case. Sometimes surgery is the miracle healing. I give all the credit to my God for my healing.
-The Atonement has great healing power! It encompasses healing of every kind: physical, spiritual, emotional, mental. Every time either I or one of my kids experiences healing, I try to acknowledge my Savior and his Atonement. If we have faith, and repent we can be healed of our ailments. Sometimes we may not receive complete healing until the resurrection. But, our most important healing is our spiritual healing. And that comes by Faith, Repentence, Baptism, Covenant Making, Covenant Keeping, Continuous Striving and picking ourselves up when we fall down, Hard Work in relationships, Choosing the Right Every Day, and Becoming the Person who He wants us to be!!
- We are never alone when we stand with God! Though we may not have a single earthly person standing next to us, when we make the brave choice to not follow the ways of the world, or succumb to peer pressure, we will be standing strong with God!!! And we will also be standing with Nephi, Moroni, Joseph Smith, and so many other great people!!!
-Never sacrifice what you *really* want, for what you want right now!!! This is a big part of my "conservative character." If this is not what you really want in life but you are feeling tempted or pressured, do NOT give in!!! Hold out awhile longer for what you REALLY want!!! I am a huge believer in this!! There is a lot of self control that comes with this principle, but it is SO rewarding!! It's a huge part of who I am!!! And I invite you all to try it!!
-Relationships are the most important thing. Family is everything. We were organized as families by God. He assembled us in he pre-mortal world. I used to feel like I was mismatched in my own family of origin, only to find as I am aging, that who am I to question God's all knowing. And only to realize as I strive to strengthen the relationships with my own 9 brothers and sisters, and parents that who am I kidding?! I was placed in a family of awesome-ness!!! These guys are all great, and unique and love every one of them with my whole heart!!! And not only is it just family relationships that are important, so our our friendships, and probably our relationships with all that we interact with. We should leave every single person feeling better about themselves than when we met them.
-Be your best self. If you've learned how to be kind, be kind, even when it's hard! If you learned the value of hard work, do it! If you've learned truth, live it!!
Thursday, September 25, 2014
Love at Home
Monday, September 15, 2014
And the Rebellious Shall be Pierced with Much Sorrow
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Received from Sue Farson Kapp on 2 June 2013 for posting on FamilySearch.org.
**I came across this interesting story on FamilySearch. I left all the information of the Author and source on the posting to cite proper ownership.
Monday, September 1, 2014
Family Ups and Downs
Family Changes:
I love these people more than any others in the world!!! I am so grateful for them. We've been through a lot together, and we continue to go through a lot together!!
So many of the trials we are experiencing, I never dreamed we would be experiencing. But here we are, in the middle of some heavy stuff that I won't go into!! I know The Lord is helping to make my burdens lighter. I know that He helps me when I turn to Him, and when I position myself to receive His help by choosing the right. If I don't make good choices, He can't help me as much, even though He wants to.
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Update
Brief Update
Meet Ashton and a brief Update
Meet Ashton
Thursday, August 20, 2009
I'm Back!
We did, however, take our kids to hike Y mountain in Provo a few weeks ago. That also was a strenuous hike, but our kids did great! Of course we did give them the motivation of donuts once they got to the top.
Alyssa went to Clear Creek Summer Camp for a week this summer and Kayla, Kyle and Rilyn went to Grandma Vala's in Montana for a week with Grandma and some cousins. Tyler got to stay home with Mom and Dad.
Laren is working as busy as ever with his job, which he has now been at just shy of a year! That is hard to believe!! He still enjoys it very much. He works with good people and the work is interesting and intense. He has lots of meetings, in fact I can rarely get him on the phone or cell phone most days so I've pretty much quit trying until he comes home. And last night he didn't get home until about 8:30 or so!
Aside from Girls Camp, I also went with the Youth to Youth Conference up to Camp Williams North of Lehi for 3 days. These youth in our ward are a fantastic bunch of kids! I enjoy all of the time that I spend with them!!
A couple of weeks ago we had a Mother/Daughter Enrichment Activity up at Mutual Dell, a campground/Lodge that our stake owns up American Fork Canyon. I have been busy attending BYU Education Week this week, and I finally got my Utah Drivers License (had to take a written test for that, even though I've been driving 20 years - pretty crazy!), and today our kids started back to school!!
I cannot say enough GOOD about Education Week! It beats out Women's Conference by a mile. The classes are more diversified (different subjects) and very informative and educational, unlike Women's Conference where many of the talks are about being a wife and mother and not to belittle it, because it is great, but almost every class has the same topic with just different stories and a different presenter(s).
So far here is a list of the classes I've taken at Education Week:
Mental Wellness: What is it, How to get it and How to Keep it (No matter what hits you!) by: Carrie Wrigley
Coping With Adversity Through Prayer
by: Barbara Barrington Jones
Filling Your Heart & Home with the Irresistible Light of Christlike Love: Enriching Your Marriage
by: Gary and Joy Lundberg
The Plan of Salvation: The Great Plan of Happiness
by: David J. Ridges - the guy who wrote The Book of Mormon Made Easier, one of my favorite books!
Helping Your Husband Preside in Love and Righteousness
by: John Bytheway
Kitchen Organization: Help Your Kitchen Help You
by: Marie C. Ricks
Listen to a Prophet's Voice: The Process of Personal Progression
by: Scott Anderson
Coping With Clutter
by: Marie Ricks ...LOVE these classes by Sister Ricks. She has a great website on helping with all sorts of housekeeping chores, menu planning, budgeting, etc... Her website can be found here.
And a few pictures...
Monday, July 6, 2009
Our new little pet
Now my house is filled with all the neighbor kids on our cul-d-sac, all wanting to hold and play with her. We are trying to potty train her and train her to her kennel at night - doing all those things that dog owners have to go through to have the joyful, cute little pet! We really think pink is Molly's color! After waiting quite a few years, my kids finally have a pet other than a bunny and fish.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
5 Temples in 4 Days
Five Temples in Four Days
Our family in front of the Logan Temple.
The temple where Laren took out his endowments. Right before Laren's mission he lived in Nibley, UT - just outside of Logan, with his Mom. He got a job there working for a farmer. And so he took us around to where he lived and worked at that time in his life. It was interesting to see where he'd been. And I had only been to Logan once before, but wow! what a beautiful place and surrounding area that is!!
We took this picture on Saturday Morning, just after the evening part of his Reunion. We stayed the night at the Red Lion Inn since that is where the Reunion was the night before and it is just right next to the river and the temple in Idaho Falls. So when we checked out of the hotel, we got a photo op, with all of the ducks, in front of the temple.
Laren and the kids in front of the Rexburg, Idaho Temple.
What a special place this is for me because when I was a student at Ricks College (back when it was called that), I would go up to a church building not far from the temple and sit in my car overlooking all of Rexburg and pray. It was my "secret" place of prayer. And this temple is just acrossed the street and up the hill a little from the apartments (Hillcrest) that I lived in at Ricks College/BYU Idaho.
The kids and I in front of the Ogden, Utah Temple.
There is a picture somewhere of my Mom and Dad in front of this temple, close to the time I was born (early 1970's). So I had an interest in seeing this temple. My parents were never sealed in the Temple, they had just stopped to visit the grounds and pose for a picture. I was quite surprised by this temple, as it is in the middle of downtown Ogden (or so it seemed) and the area around it was deteriorating with some newer buildings there. The temple has a fence that goes all the way around it and busy streets on every side except for one, where a church building stands. Because of that, we took this picture in the parking lot of a vacant building across the street.
The last temple on our way home (before we got to the Salt Lake Temple) was the Bountiful, Utah Temple. I see it from the freeway as I go and visit my sister in Kaysville. It has the same outside architecture as the Mount Timpanogos Temple (our temple, now). But the Bountiful Temple sits high on the hillside/mountainside in Bountiful. And you will notice, it even sits pretty high above this sidewalk that runs in front of it. As we pulled up to get this picture, a man dressed in a suit approached us and told us they were doing a fireside for the primary children but that we were more than welcome to stay. I think it was his kind way of letting us know they wanted us to park elsewhere or something like that. :) Our kids kind of wanted to stay, after they heard they were serving refreshments, but we got our picture and headed for home.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
400th post!
We just got back from Laren's 20 year High School Class Reunion. It was fun to go and see some of the people that I knew long ago when I went to Ricks College and worked at Arctic Circle, because those were some of the same people who grew up and graduated with my future husband even though I didn't know it at the time! It was also fun to see so many that Laren has talked about through the years.
Overall it was a great trip, short but sweet. We filled each day with a ton of stuff. Looking back at the 300 plus pictures we took surprises me that we fit everything in that we did! I will say this, Idaho is COLD!! Brrrr, I had forgotten how chilly it gets there - even when it's "warm"!! LOL










