Monday, March 27, 2017

Life is Sometimes Funny!




LIFE IS FUNNY!
Sometimes life is funny, and we just have to embrace it.  I spent some time today working on this invitation and thought I would share.  Trying to knock some things off my to do list so I can go on vacation!!

"The whole thing is to learn every day, to get brighter and brighter."  















Saturday, October 22, 2016

Sometimes Life is Hard...

Tap tap is this thing on?!!

Sometimes Life is Hard...

It's been forever since I have blogged; I seem to have forgotten how?!!  So many things in blogger have changed since I used to blog, and forget about me doing it on my phone or iPad.  I tried multiple times and it wouldn't work!!

Life has been crazy challenging in many different ways.  And, I am learning a lot.  Life is definitely a school.  A place where we learn and grow (if we allow it to let us).  And it seems the best, most effective method for learning and growth is through trials.  And one of the major ways that my trials have come is through the agency of others.  Though I have certainly made a lot of mistakes on my own.  It's been excruciatingly painful at times.  It's been a challenge to find joy and happiness while in the midst of the difficulties.

And certain trials and difficulties are more private than others.  It was not intended for everyone to know everything that we are facing or have faced.  But, if we can be vulnerable about our trials with safe people (not people who would gossip, or unfairly judge, we call those unsafe people).  Because there are so many "unsafe people" out there, we tend to keep our trials inside and don't expose them to the light, as a protection of sorts.  But, if we can get brave enough to start talking about our stories, then we can start to heal.  And, in the process we learn that others, and in some instances many others, are going through the same thing!  And, boom, instant friendship!  It has been such a blessing for me to read or listen to others who have shared their hard times.  It has helped me through some very heavy stuff, and it has helped me to not feel so alone in my own challenges.

Some people have a greater capacity to empathize than others.  And some people have a great capacity for empathy, but they just don't know what to say or do because they have never experienced this kind of trial, or that kind of trial before.  And, some people have very little ability to empathize, and mostly only know how to criticize.  And there are other people yet, who can't seem to offer any words, critical or otherwise, because they are in the thick of their own stuff and they are feeling too paralyzed.

I don't know how much blogging I will do here going forward.  But, I do know that the blogs I do from this point forward will be real.  (Not that I haven't been real in my past blogs, but from this point forward, they will be more real.)  I will not be hiding behind my mask or a facade.  Life isn't all butterflies and rainbows. And my house isn't always clean.  My marriage isn't perfect, and neither are my kids.  I am completely imperfect, and so is my life.  I am a sinner, I need the Atonement every day of my life! And my age is catching up with me, and I now have wrinkles on my face.  Although, there is still joy and laughter, yes!  And I hope there is much more of that in my future, and in your future!  And I trust that there will be.  But, just because life is tough, nobody likes a bunch of negativism either.  So, blogging through trials is like walking a tight rope. It's finding that balance of sharing the tough, without oversharing or sharing too much negative, and sharing the good while still be real and honest, and not misrepresenting.

Welcome to my Messy Life!

Thursday, September 17, 2015

Life..

Life...

Sometimes life just doesn't happen the way one expects it to go.  And when that happens we just have to make the best of however it happens, and 'Enjoy the Journey' as President Monson has so wisely instructed us!

Lately, I've been running my kids around like crazy to school, preschool, soccer practice, cross country practice, piano lessons, swimming lessons, ballroom dance, and musical theatre!  My calendar is fuller than I think it ever has.  

But busy is sometimes good.  And right now, that is the season of my life!!  And though I don't always like super busy, I'm enjoying the distraction that it is from other, sometimes heavy things going on.

And so right now, I'm 'Enjoying the Journey!'

My three youngest after a recent swimming practice.

Kyle running Cross Country.

Alyssa is in Cosmetology School for her Senior Year of HS, and so she has been helping us all with our hair these days, which is SO nice!! 

Kids are SO much fun!  I'm so grateful for them, and for their sweetness, their resilience and for the fun that they are!!  <3 nbsp="" p="">

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Principles

Principles
I believe this quote is from Dave Ramsey. And I really agree with this quote!!

I like to think of myself as a principle-based person. And this quote has caused me to ponder on some of the greatest principles in my life:
-Integrity. This is so much more than honesty. It's transparency. It's trustworthiness. It's doing the right thing even if no one is watching.
-Putting God's will above my own (this one is a daily challenge, but I believe it's a true principle and continue to work and do this.)
-Charity: the pure love of Christ. I think this Christmas Season could be summed up by this one word, actually!! But, we need charity in our hearts all year long!
-When we are in the service of our fellow beings, we are only in the service of our God. This great principle was given to us by King Benjamin, but we see this great example set for us repeatedly by our Savior, Jesus Christ in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. He showed He loved His (our) Father by loving and serving others.
-Faith precedes the Miracle. By small and simple things, great things are brought to pass. I just experienced a great miracle in my own life. A miracle healing of my leg and back. The two bulging discs in my back have debilitated me to pretty much bed rest the past 5 months. I prayed in faith, fervently. I received Priesthood blessings. My back was healed without surgery. Though, sometimes this is not always the case. Sometimes surgery is the miracle healing. I give all the credit to my God for my healing.
-The Atonement has great healing power! It encompasses healing of every kind: physical, spiritual, emotional, mental. Every time either I or one of my kids experiences healing, I try to acknowledge my Savior and his Atonement. If we have faith, and repent we can be healed of our ailments. Sometimes we may not receive complete healing until the resurrection. But, our most important healing is our spiritual healing. And that comes by Faith, Repentence, Baptism, Covenant Making, Covenant Keeping, Continuous Striving and picking ourselves up when we fall down, Hard Work in relationships, Choosing the Right Every Day, and Becoming the Person who He wants us to be!!
- We are never alone when we stand with God! Though we may not have a single earthly person standing next to us, when we make the brave choice to not follow the ways of the world, or succumb to peer pressure, we will be standing strong with God!!! And we will also be standing with Nephi, Moroni, Joseph Smith, and so many other great people!!!
-Never sacrifice what you *really* want, for what you want right now!!! This is a big part of my "conservative character." If this is not what you really want in life but you are feeling tempted or pressured, do NOT give in!!! Hold out awhile longer for what you REALLY want!!! I am a huge believer in this!! There is a lot of self control that comes with this principle, but it is SO rewarding!! It's a huge part of who I am!!! And I invite you all to try it!!
-Relationships are the most important thing. Family is everything. We were organized as families by God. He assembled us in he pre-mortal world. I used to feel like I was mismatched in my own family of origin, only to find as I am aging, that who am I to question God's all knowing. And only to realize as I strive to strengthen the relationships with my own 9 brothers and sisters, and parents that who am I kidding?! I was placed in a family of awesome-ness!!! These guys are all great, and unique and love every one of them with my whole heart!!! And not only is it just family relationships that are important, so our our friendships, and probably our relationships with all that we interact with. We should leave every single person feeling better about themselves than when we met them.
-Be your best self. If you've learned how to be kind, be kind, even when it's hard! If you learned the value of hard work, do it! If you've learned truth, live it!!
And I have other abiding principles in my life that I will have to save for another time, when I have more time to write. But I challenge any who reads this to ponder and find out what your abiding principles in life are, it is a great mental and spiritual adventure!!


Thursday, September 25, 2014

Love at Home


When There's Love at Home...

Inside of our Family Room

I love the hymn, Love at Home.  When I was a girl growing up, from time to time when my siblings and I would squabble my Mom would sing this song.  I can hardly think of this song without remembering my childhood, and my Mother singing those words to us.  At the time I was bereft about it, but now it is a fond memory!!

There is beauty all around when there's love at home
There is joy in ev'ry sound when there's love at home.
Peace and plenty here abide, smiling sweet on ev'ry side.
Time doth softly sweetly glide when there's love at home.
Love at home, love at home.
Time doth softly sweetly glide when there's love at home!

In the Cottage there is Joy when there's love at home
Hate and envy ne'er annoy when there's love at home.
Roses bloom beneath our feet; all the earth's a garden sweet
Making life a bliss complete when there's love at home.
Love at home, love at home.
Making life a bliss complete when there's love at home!

Kindly Heaven smiles above when there's love at home;
All the world is filled with love when there's love at home
Sweeter sings the brooklet by; brighter beams the azure sky.
Oh, there's one who smiles on high when there's love at home.
Love at home, love at home.
Oh, there's one who smiles on high when there's love at home!

Hymns p. 294

Monday, September 15, 2014

And the Rebellious Shall be Pierced with Much Sorrow

Sorrow...



The Rebellious Shall Be Pierced With Much Sorrow
One of the most significant lessons I have ever learned is involved with the story of a prize Holstein heifer calf who got into the alfalfa, and bloated because we could not build a fence which would hold her. One day after dad had built a particularly strong fence to hold her in, I remember thinking to my self that I still hoped she would get out somehow. At that time I admired her independence and wanted her to assert herself against the best efforts of my dad. Well, she did get out and ate green alfalfa, and despite the best efforts of dad to save her, it cost her her life. I remember my feelings the next day when her body was being hauled away in the by-products truck. Her rebellion had cost her her life.
Sometimes our rebellion against authority can cost us dearly. The very things that seem to restrict our freedom are the things that ultimately assure our freedom. True freedom only comes from obedience.
D&C 1:3, And the rebellious shall be pierced with much sorrow for their iniquities shall be spoken upon the housetops, and their secret acts shall be revealed.
—Jack R. Kapp
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Received from Sue Farson Kapp on 2 June 2013 for posting on FamilySearch.org.

**I came across this interesting story on FamilySearch. I left all the information of the Author and source on the posting to cite proper ownership.



Monday, September 1, 2014

Family Ups and Downs

Family Changes:

 

I love these people more than any others in the world!!! I am so grateful for them. We've been through a lot together, and we continue to go through a lot together!!

So many of the trials we are experiencing, I never dreamed we would be experiencing. But here we are, in the middle of some heavy stuff that I won't go into!! I know The Lord is helping to make my burdens lighter. I know that He helps me when I turn to Him, and when I position myself to receive His help by choosing the right. If I don't make good choices, He can't help me as much, even though He wants to.

 

 

 

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Update


Brief Update



Our house

We finally found a house in the same area as the house we were renting.  It was a foreclosure, so we got a good deal, but have spent all of the 4 years we have lived here fixing it up!  Lots of time and money!

Kyle is feeling much better than 4.5 years ago when he got suddenly extremely ill with life threatening liver problems.  Laren's company won the next phase (to the North) of the I-15 project.  It's called "the point" project.  He has also done a lot of traveling to Kansas for a dual freeway interchange project there.

The kids are growing up!  Kayla is 17 and a Senior in High School now.  Alyssa is 15 and a sophomore, Kyle is 13 and in 8th grade, Rilyn is 11 and in 6th, Tyler is 8 and in third grade.  and Ashton hangs out with Mom at home, but we usually hit the gym on most weekdays where he hangs out in the gym daycare for Mom can sweat and forget about her troubles for a bit!  

We love Utah, and we are so glad we decided to move back here 5 years ago now!

Meet Ashton and a brief Update

Meet Ashton

And an Update


Ashton Jay Livingston
Was born to our family September 30th, 2010

Ashton has been such a delightful addition to our family!!  Though we weren't necessarily counting on another baby, we are SO glad we got him!  And he is almost 3 years old now!  I haven't blogged in 4 years!

                  Ashton being silly in the kitchen on a recent Sunday morning before Church.





Thursday, August 20, 2009

I'm Back!

I'm Back!

Update

I haven't blogged in a long time! Life has been busy and good. We had a fun summer and spent a lot of time at Seven Peaks. I also had a good time exercising several mornings a week with some gals in my ward hiking to the Mount Timpanogos Cave. I don't believe I've ever had better exercise for my heart and lungs! It is a strenuous but fulfilling hike! We hope to take our kids soon, and actually tour the cave!

We did, however, take our kids to hike Y mountain in Provo a few weeks ago. That also was a strenuous hike, but our kids did great! Of course we did give them the motivation of donuts once they got to the top.

Alyssa went to Clear Creek Summer Camp for a week this summer and Kayla, Kyle and Rilyn went to Grandma Vala's in Montana for a week with Grandma and some cousins. Tyler got to stay home with Mom and Dad.

Laren is working as busy as ever with his job, which he has now been at just shy of a year! That is hard to believe!! He still enjoys it very much. He works with good people and the work is interesting and intense. He has lots of meetings, in fact I can rarely get him on the phone or cell phone most days so I've pretty much quit trying until he comes home. And last night he didn't get home until about 8:30 or so!

Aside from Girls Camp, I also went with the Youth to Youth Conference up to Camp Williams North of Lehi for 3 days. These youth in our ward are a fantastic bunch of kids! I enjoy all of the time that I spend with them!!

A couple of weeks ago we had a Mother/Daughter Enrichment Activity up at Mutual Dell, a campground/Lodge that our stake owns up American Fork Canyon. I have been busy attending BYU Education Week this week, and I finally got my Utah Drivers License (had to take a written test for that, even though I've been driving 20 years - pretty crazy!), and today our kids started back to school!!

I cannot say enough GOOD about Education Week! It beats out Women's Conference by a mile. The classes are more diversified (different subjects) and very informative and educational, unlike Women's Conference where many of the talks are about being a wife and mother and not to belittle it, because it is great, but almost every class has the same topic with just different stories and a different presenter(s).

So far here is a list of the classes I've taken at Education Week:

Mental Wellness: What is it, How to get it and How to Keep it (No matter what hits you!) by: Carrie Wrigley

Coping With Adversity Through Prayer
by: Barbara Barrington Jones

Filling Your Heart & Home with the Irresistible Light of Christlike Love: Enriching Your Marriage
by: Gary and Joy Lundberg

The Plan of Salvation: The Great Plan of Happiness
by: David J. Ridges - the guy who wrote The Book of Mormon Made Easier, one of my favorite books!

Helping Your Husband Preside in Love and Righteousness
by: John Bytheway

Kitchen Organization: Help Your Kitchen Help You
by: Marie C. Ricks

Listen to a Prophet's Voice: The Process of Personal Progression
by: Scott Anderson

Coping With Clutter
by: Marie Ricks ...LOVE these classes by Sister Ricks. She has a great website on helping with all sorts of housekeeping chores, menu planning, budgeting, etc... Her website can be found here.

And a few pictures...


Our puppy Molly, who is now caught up on her immunizations until she is a year old! She has brought a refreshing joy to our family!!

Laren and I at the "Y" on Y Mountain a few weeks ago.

The kids and I resting on the "Y", the kids eating their donuts and me, my rice crispy treats. (Love those Creamery Rice Crispy Treats!)


At the top of the hike to Timp Cave with my hiking buddies!

Laren finally replaced his wrecked Camry with a Nissan Maxima.

Alyssa and Tyler at Temple Square this summer.

Kyle, Rilyn and Kayla at the airport headed to Grandma and Grandpa's!

Alyssa returning from Summer Camp at Clear Creek.

Citrus Chicken Teriyaki, a newfound dinner. Our dinner Sunday night.
This summer I started doing Deals to Meals, a program where recipes are created for you based on the grocery store items that are on sale. It has been fun for our family to try new recipes and get out of our eating rut!

Smothered Chicken, a dinner we had last week.

Me going to get my Utah Drivers License.

Most of the kids and I attempting to hike to the Timpangogos Cave, but we were too early - the trail doesn't open on the weekend until 7:30 am. It opens during the weekdays by 6:00 am. So this is us about 1/4 of the way up, before the gate.

(Front-Back, l-r) Alyssa, Rilyn, Cara, Kayla My daughters and a friend at Mutual Dell a couple of weeks ago.

And finally me helping Rilyn to paint her block up at Mutual Dell.
I hope you all had a great summer too!!


Monday, July 6, 2009

Our new little pet

Meet Molly!

Our new little Shih Tzu pooch.

My second oldest daughter Alyssa and I were going to the store to get a few essentials for our Fourth of July festivities the next day and took the opportunity to peer at the pooches for sale. We shouldn't have because we fell instantly in love. Alyssa called Laren pleading. He asked me what I thought, of course my opinion was biased toward the dog. (Which is unusual because I am not a huge animal person.) Then we decided no. We hung up and started to do the shopping. Alyssa was in tears. Laren called back, back peddaling. Even he was thinking twice and he had not seen her. That was all it took. We went in the store and bought a can of pet food, got some cash back and went to see about getting us a new puppy!

Now my house is filled with all the neighbor kids on our cul-d-sac, all wanting to hold and play with her. We are trying to potty train her and train her to her kennel at night - doing all those things that dog owners have to go through to have the joyful, cute little pet! We really think pink is Molly's color! After waiting quite a few years, my kids finally have a pet other than a bunny and fish.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

5 Temples in 4 Days


Five Temples in Four Days

On our trip to and from Idaho for Laren's Class Reunion, we stopped at all the temples along the way that are North of Salt Lake, since we are a short distance from the temples South of Salt Lake. It was a fun little excursion, and hopefully memorable (in a good way!) for our children.


Our family in front of the Logan Temple.

The temple where Laren took out his endowments. Right before Laren's mission he lived in Nibley, UT - just outside of Logan, with his Mom. He got a job there working for a farmer. And so he took us around to where he lived and worked at that time in his life. It was interesting to see where he'd been. And I had only been to Logan once before, but wow! what a beautiful place and surrounding area that is!!


Our family in front of the Idaho Falls, Idaho Temple (acrossed the river from it, actually).

We took this picture on Saturday Morning, just after the evening part of his Reunion. We stayed the night at the Red Lion Inn since that is where the Reunion was the night before and it is just right next to the river and the temple in Idaho Falls. So when we checked out of the hotel, we got a photo op, with all of the ducks, in front of the temple.

Laren and the kids in front of the Rexburg, Idaho Temple.

What a special place this is for me because when I was a student at Ricks College (back when it was called that), I would go up to a church building not far from the temple and sit in my car overlooking all of Rexburg and pray. It was my "secret" place of prayer. And this temple is just acrossed the street and up the hill a little from the apartments (Hillcrest) that I lived in at Ricks College/BYU Idaho.

The kids and I in front of the Ogden, Utah Temple.

There is a picture somewhere of my Mom and Dad in front of this temple, close to the time I was born (early 1970's). So I had an interest in seeing this temple. My parents were never sealed in the Temple, they had just stopped to visit the grounds and pose for a picture. I was quite surprised by this temple, as it is in the middle of downtown Ogden (or so it seemed) and the area around it was deteriorating with some newer buildings there. The temple has a fence that goes all the way around it and busy streets on every side except for one, where a church building stands. Because of that, we took this picture in the parking lot of a vacant building across the street.


Us in front of the Bountiful Utah Temple

The last temple on our way home (before we got to the Salt Lake Temple) was the Bountiful, Utah Temple. I see it from the freeway as I go and visit my sister in Kaysville. It has the same outside architecture as the Mount Timpanogos Temple (our temple, now). But the Bountiful Temple sits high on the hillside/mountainside in Bountiful. And you will notice, it even sits pretty high above this sidewalk that runs in front of it. As we pulled up to get this picture, a man dressed in a suit approached us and told us they were doing a fireside for the primary children but that we were more than welcome to stay. I think it was his kind way of letting us know they wanted us to park elsewhere or something like that. :) Our kids kind of wanted to stay, after they heard they were serving refreshments, but we got our picture and headed for home.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

400th post!

Wow!


I cannot believe this is my 400th post! I need to turn my blog into a book one of these days!!

We just got back from Laren's 20 year High School Class Reunion. It was fun to go and see some of the people that I knew long ago when I went to Ricks College and worked at Arctic Circle, because those were some of the same people who grew up and graduated with my future husband even though I didn't know it at the time! It was also fun to see so many that Laren has talked about through the years.



Laren (in the striped shirt on the right) and some of his old high school buddies at the park in Sugar City yesterday. Not too surprising to learn that many of them became engineers like him.

Laren and I at the reunion yesterday.


While I was in town I got in touch with one of my dear friends, Kris, and we had a nice little visit! (Thanks, Kris, for obliging me and my girls!)



Kris brought her 2 daughters and I brought my 3 and the 5 of them became fast friends playing hide and seek and sardines at the BYU-Idaho Botanical Gardens while us moms visited!




Us in front of the Rexburg, Idaho Temple. I cannot believe there is a temple there now, just a short distance (literally) from where I lived when I was a student there 16 years ago! It is a beautiful temple, I'm bummed we didn't have time to do a session there!


And Jaci, this is for you! This is Brother Mike Rasmussen, a counselor from our Bishopric in the student ward when we were students there. (Jaci and I were roommates.) I did not know this, but he is from Laren's home ward in Plano. So when we went to Church today and I saw him, even after all these years I knew it was him. We had a nice conversation. Our old Bishop, Bishop Puzey is a mission president in the Phillipines now. And I specifically asked Brother Rasmussen if he remembered you Jaci and he did! He said he remembered going with his wife and taking you to the doctor and hospital in Idaho Falls. Such a fun reunion!!

Overall it was a great trip, short but sweet. We filled each day with a ton of stuff. Looking back at the 300 plus pictures we took surprises me that we fit everything in that we did! I will say this, Idaho is COLD!! Brrrr, I had forgotten how chilly it gets there - even when it's "warm"!! LOL